Meeting new old friends, and eating mistakes

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baking, Fishlips restaurant, new friends, old friends, rye bread, soda bread, success and failure, try and try again

“It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson

Last Saturday Michael and I met his best friends for lunch at Fishlips Waterfront Bar & Grill in Cape Canaveral . He has been friends with this couple since college. Michael, like myself, is not the best at keeping in touch with friends, so I don’t expect to meet many more people.

I really enjoyed meeting them. They are such great people.  We plan on traveling together in the future. The husband and I share the same birthday.  I love such coincidences.

The food was good and fresh. I had the mahi mahi tacos and to drink I had a prosecco wit lychee. I saw a couple of dolphins and seagulls. It was a fun day!

“There’s not a word yet, for old friends who’ve just met.” ― Jim Henson

My baking continues with mixed results. Lately I have had some success, but also some really bad failures while attempting to make the perfect rye bread. I don’t really care for rye bread, but it is Michael’s favorite, so I am in search of the best bread-machine rye bread recipe.

At lunch I was talking about my adventures with the bread maker, and mentioned the mistakes I made with the rye bread. My number one mistake is not following the recipe properly.

My new friend said: “we eat our mistakes”.

Haha, I love that. I also eat all my mistakes, the edible ones and all others.

Isn’t it better to eat our mistakes than to let them eat away at us?

We have to learn from our mistakes and move on. Stop obsessing about it. Just do better next time.

Here are 2 winners that tasted amazing:
A rye bread, that I have not been able to reproduce not matter how many times I try.  

Irish soda bread

“Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.”
― Albert Einstein

Less social media, more real living

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ghosts from the past, instagram, rabbit hole, snooping, social media

“Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.” –  Maya Angelou? (not sure)

Embarrassing confession here: I have been wasting time on social media. 

Why?

Curiosity? Killing time? 

I don’t know.

I know it is a waste of valuable time, and an exercise in nothingness. 

I guess what sparked my social media binging, it was, at first, a trip to the past.  A few people reached out on Valentine’s Day and on my birthday.   I call them ghosts from the past.  They resurface every now and then.  I don’t reply anymore.

I started looking into some of their social media. For the record, I don’t want these people in my life.  

Still,  I got curious and went snooping.  And I didn’t stop with them.  All of a sudden I am back to a place I was in the past, which is, the constant social media surfing.  I now know the latest about all celebrities and influencers.

What a waste of time! Who cares what dress an influencer is using, or where an old friend went on vacation?

I caught myself when I realized I was using this internet surfing, as a mental escape from the stresses of work.  Every second I felt overwhelmed, I found myself in someone’s social media.

This whole rambling on, is just to say that I am, once again, fully resolved to stop going down this path of destruction.  Destruction of a good mind and precious time.  I am resolved to stop the endless snooping and reading of stuff that has nothing to do with my life, and it doesn’t add anything to it.

I have so many projects to finish, at work and personal.  I am behind on my visits to your blogs. I haven’t caught up with any friends.  There is so much I could be doing instead.   I am embarrassed I am robbing myself of precious time.

And another thought on checking up the social media of old friends and exes, it keeps dragging me back to a past I don’t want to go back to.

Realization and accountability are the first steps.  I promise myself to do better.

Wishing you all a blessed weekend!

“I feel keeping a promise to yourself is a direct reflection of the love you have for yourself. I used to make promises to myself and find them easy to break. Today, I love myself enough to not only make a promise to myself, but I love myself enough to keep that promise” ― Steve Maraboli

ps. please pardon typos and other error – too busy surfing 🙂

March the month of meaning

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far away, full of gratitude, March 2015, not today, the past, where I was

“When the future begins to run out, the journey to the past in our minds increases tremendously because there is no longer any room to go beyond, so we go back to expand our lives in a virtual way!”  ― Mehmet Murat ildan

Hello friends,

I am still trying to cleanup my Drafts Folder.  It will feel like a huge accomplishment when I am done.  I have already deleted a lot of them, but will be posting some every now and then.  No editing.

The comments will be turned off on the old posts, as they represent where I was, but not where I am today.

This one is form 2015.

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Welcome March!  One of the best months of the year for me!!  Why?  Well, for starters it is my birthday month:-)

It marks 3 years of writing this blog

It marks my 49th birthday

It marks my getting my 2 bedroom apartment

It marks the International Day of the Woman

It marks my favorite person’s b day.

It marks the past, it marks the future.

So much to be grateful for.

So much to be proud of.

Hard work, God’s blessing, tenacity, luck, the right people, patience, lessons and learning.

My 2015 starts now.

I didn’t go skiing, but I am not terrified as I was before,  that I will never go skiing again.

Life is good, and it will only get better.

Always grateful!

We are Invaluable

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value yourself

“I have always said that if you undervalue what you do,                                       the world undervalues who you are.             
And when you undervalue who you are,                                                            the world undervalues what you do.
My experience is that women are, unfortunately, masters at both.”
― Suze Orman

 

“Strong people have a strong sense of self-worth and self-awareness; they don’t need the approval of others.”
― Roy T. Bennett

 

“I will not be “famous,” “great.” I will go on adventuring, changing, opening my mind and my eyes, refusing to be stamped and stereotyped. The thing is to free one’s self: to let it find its dimensions, not be impeded.” – Virginia Wolf

Lunch on St. Johns River

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Barbara Lee, day trip, double rainbow, river cruises, Sanford Florida, St. Johns River, steamboats and sternwheels

“May what I do flow from me like a river, no forcing and no holding back, the way it is with children.” ― Rainer Maria Rilke

Inspired by the visit to DeBary Hall, and learning about his steamboat trips along St. Johns River, Michael and I decided to take a river cruise.

St. Johns River is the longest river in Florida and it is the only one, of very few in the world, that flows south to north.

We chose a 3-hour lunch cruise on the Barbara Lee. The Barbara Lee was built in 1986 and refurbished in 2012. 

We boarded at 11am.  We were seated by the window on the first level. We were served pecan buns as soon as we sat down.  They were delicious. 

After giving our waitress our lunch orders we went outside to take in the views.  It was a gorgeous day. We sat outside for awhile I enjoyed a mimosa.

We returned inside around 12:30pm for lunch. Michael, and it seemed like everyone else, ordered the salmon.  I was between the chicken parmigiana and the prime rib.  In the end I, regretfully, ordered the prime rib.

The meat looked awful. I took a tiny bite and even though it was not so bad,  I couldn’t get past the look of it.  I ate the mashed potatoes, green beans and the bread rolls with butter. For dessert there was red velvet cake. We enjoyed that very much.

There was also an entertainer singing some oldies, but goodies, such as Frank Sinatra’s songs. I really enjoyed that.

I highly recommend this boat trip for a fun day.  Just don’t order the meat.  They also have dinner cruises and other theme nights.  

Afterwards we walked around downtown Sanford, which is a great little town.

 

“Have you also learned that secret from the river; that there is no such thing as time?” That the river is everywhere at the same time, at the source and at the mouth, at the waterfall, at the ferry, at the current, in the ocean and in the mountains, everywhere and that the present only exists for it, not the shadow of the past nor the shadow of the future.” ― Hermann Hesse

Gullible much?

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a duck on a lake, beautiful nature, being gullible and naïve, ponds and lakes, too trusting

“Fame is proof that people are gullible.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson

When I first starting going on my bike rides in the morning and my walks in the evening, I kept noticing this beautiful duck in this little pond.

I noticed that he was always in the same spot and always alone.  I felt sorry for him, as he seemed lonely.  

Then, a few days into my walks, Michael decided to walk with me.  I pointed out the duck to him. 

He said: “It is fake”.

All of a sudden it made complete sense.  I felt so dumb.  Why didn’t I realize that before?  It never moved. It looked so perfect.

Oh well! Now the question is: Why is there a fake duck in the pond?

“I am extremely gullible when I lie to myself.” ― Michael Ian Black, You’re Not Doing It Right: Tales of Marriage, Sex, Death, and Other Humiliations

 

Love is togetherness, but is also independence.

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independence, Khalil Gibran, love, The Prophet, togetherness, writings

This is one of my favorite excerpts from The Prophet:

“Let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.

Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.

Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.

And stand together, yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.”

― Khalil Gibran

A visit to DeBary Hall in DeBary, Florida

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Debary Florida, DeBary Hall Historic State, history, hunting lodge, steamboats St. Johns River, vintage

“History will be kind to me for I intend to write it.”
― Winston S. Churchill

On Sunday we visited the DeBary Hall in DeBary, Florida. It was a guided tour, so we learned a lot about this beautiful house and its owner.  It was so interesting!

Frederick DeBary was originally from Germany and came to NY to represent Mumms champagne.  He became very successful and made a fortune.  On a trip to Florida, via steamboat on the St. John’s River, he fell in love with the area and decided to buy land and build a hunting lodge.  

DeBary Hall was built in 1871.  It was a hunting lodge to host his family and friends from NY, in the summer.  He entertained some of the wealthiest and most prominent people of the time, including presidents.

It had all the newest and best amenities at the time.  He spared no expenses to provide his family and guests with the best of everything.  He even imported the birds to be hunted.  They ate all that was hunted.

There is a lot more interesting information about the house, property and its owner, but I am keeping with my resolve of posting more, so I am stopping here. 

As usual I didn’t take many pictures. I was enamored with this gorgeous house and didn’t want to miss any of the guide’s explanations.

As a lover of bread I had to take a picture of the toaster. I also took a picture of his grandson’s letter to his son Adolphe.

A Spiritual Sunday in April

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Alan Kardec, Cassadaga Spiritual Center, Colby Temple, Lake Helen Florida, mediums and healers, positive energy, psychics, Spiritism

“My religion consists of a humble admiration of the illimitable superior spirit who reveals himself in the slight details we are able to perceive with our frail and feeble mind.” ― Albert Einstein

Last Sunday we went to church services at the Colby Temple at the Cassadaga Spiritual Community in Lake Helen, Florida.  The service was about one and a half hours, and it went by very fast. 

There was a sermon by Rev. Dr. Louis Gates, the singing of hymns, a healing prayer – there were healers available in the back of the church, so people could sit with them and get a dedicated healer’s energy. 

There was also a guest speaker: Jeremy McDonald.  His talk was also short, but interesting and inspirational, about energy and transformation. 

After the service we sat outside by the lake while waiting for the Afternoon Message service.  During this service the mediums, healers and students go around the room and give messages to people in the audience. 

Michael received a message from a medium. I thought it was on point.  I got a message from one of the students. She got everything wrong.  I am still a believer.  I know that not everyone that proclaims to be a medium is one.  Also, she was a student, so perhaps she needs to refine her gift. 

At the end of the day we enjoyed our time there.  We went home with a positive energy.

“I believe in God, but not as one thing, not as an old man in the sky. I believe that what people call God is something in all of us. I believe that what Jesus and Mohammed and Buddha and all the rest said was right. It’s just that the translations have gone wrong.” ― John Lennon

“The material world is simply an expression of the mind; that’s what so many fail to see. We’re so dependent on what is before us that we discount our intuition. Yet if one dismisses instinct, how can one understand or believe in a world that exists beyond one’s sight?” ― Megan Chance, The Spiritualist

Out and about

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cava wine, churrasco, De La Vega Restaurant, Deland Florida, frames and vases, Goodwill stores

“Women usually love what they buy, yet hate two-thirds of what is in their closets.” ― Mignon McLaughlin

Last Saturday – April 6, 2024

We went to a Goodwill store.  I wanted to get some old frames for me to use for my mosaics.  I hadn’t been to a Goodwill store in ages.

I was pleasantly surprised.  This store was so big and there was so many items.  And so many people too!

I saw some brand new shoes, and some beautiful clothing that looked to be in great shape. I am sure if someone takes the time to go around the store, there are a lot treasures to be found.

I reminded myself that I don’t need or want any additional clothing and shoes, even if it is a bargain.  I don’t like shopping anyway, so I normally just want to run out after grabbing what I went it for. I left with 6 frames and 1 vase for $33. 

The only problem I have with such stores is the smell. The moment I walked in, the smell of old hit me.  After a few minutes I got used to it.

After that, we went to Deland, Florida.  After walking around downtown, we decided to stop for a late lunch at De La Vega Restaurant.

I love tapas, so that was an easy choice for me. But in the end, I didn’t choose tapas (small plates).  I chose to order the Churrasco.   

It was a plate with sirloin steak with chimichurri sauce, with sausage with cheese yucca fries and pico de gallo.  It was delicious!! To drink I had cava.  Michael had vegetarian enchiladas and also thought it was delicious.  Michael drank water.

Churrasco

Afterwards we stopped by Deland Fish House Restaurant to get coconut cake for dessert.  We were going to eat there originally, so I had looked at the menu and spotted the coconut cake on the menu.  Remember, I love coconut and I love cake, so that is a winning combination!

The cake was good, but not something I would go out of my way to get it.  Well, I wouldn’t say no if you offered me some right now 🙂

“One can hardly do anything productive when one knows there is cake in the fridge.” ― Joyce Rachelle